Before I conclude here, the Shulamite also makes a statement related to her identity that I feel is important to note. She says, “I am my beloved’s, and he is mine.”
Do we really believe that about ourselves? Do we really believe that the Church belongs to God? More importantly, do we believe that Christ belongs to the Church? What does that even mean?
God is looking for a Bride, not a harem of individuals. The Church is His Bride, singular. We are so used to thinking of ourselves as individual Christians, we neglect to see God’s purpose in the singular identity of the Body of Christ. One of those purposes is that not only do we belong to Him alone, but that He belongs solely to the Church.
To be betrothed to Christ means that we have a unique relationship with Him that those outside the Church do not have … and cannot have. Jesus spoke about these things: “I go to prepare a place for you”, “ask whatever you will in my name, and it will be done”, etc. And Paul tells us that the “pillar of truth is in the church.”
Do we really believe that the Church is a special unique place (not the building but the gathering of saints)? That He is intimate with His people in a way that is separate from all other creation, through the indwelling of the Holy Spirit and the sharing of His divine nature? It is an essential part of our personal and collective identity that we believe this and live it out in action. He is manifestly revealed “when two or more are gathered in my name.”
This is why calling people to Christ is calling them to His Body. There is no separation there. As it says in Hebrews, contrasting the call of the Old Covenant with the New, the writer says we have not come to a mountain which can be touched or a speaker from the earth but, “to Mount Zion and to the city of the Living God, the heavenly Jerusalem, to an innumerable company of angels” – and are you ready for this? – “to the general assembly (the festal gathering) and church of the firstborn who are registered in heaven, to God the Judge of all, to the spirits of just men made perfect (complete), to Jesus the Mediator of the new covenant, and to the blood of sprinkling that speaks better things than that of Abel.”
To come to Jesus means to come to all that is one with Him. To separate out Christ from His Bride, from “the general assembly and church of the firstborn who are registered in heaven”, is to misunderstand and to deny that with which God has chosen to reveal Himself.
So here we come to the answer of the question from the Daughters of Jerusalem: “Where has your beloved gone that we may seek him with you?”
The Shulamite answers, “My beloved has gone to his garden, to the beds of spices, to feed his flock in the gardens, and to gather lilies. I am my beloved’s, and my beloved is mine. He feeds his flocks among the lilies.” She answers her own question from before: “Tell me .. where you feed your flock, where you make it rest at noon.”
Remember the Shulamite, the bride, is the lily of the valley, the lily among thorns. God is in the business of gathering lilies, gathering those who are fully committed and wed to Him, and feeding His flock there.
He feeds His flock “among the lilies.”
Peace.