In my past post on “defining hate”, I genuinely sought evidence that Republicans/conservatives were guilty of the name calling and destruction of private property during the campaign in November.
Either no one could give me one or they didn’t care … but I thought of one: at a speech by McCain, where he was criticizing Obama, someone in the crowd yelled “kill him!” or something to that effect. Upon hearing what had happened, McCain clearly stood against such rhetoric and stupidity.
Maybe I missed it, but I don’t remember a similar speech by Obama about crude T-shirts about Palin or destruction of property owned by those supporting McCain.
But someone did bring up to me, in person, the church that went around to the funerals of dead soldiers who happened to be gay and carried signs calling the soldiers names and saying things like “God hates fags.”
While not really what I was looking for, I’ll bite and say this is a great BAD example.
To me, there is a large gap between “your sin leads you to death, and God desires for you to repent and have life and have it more abundantly” and “God hates fags.”
How does “God hates fags” give any message of hope for redemption, restoration, or life? Not to mention the sheer crudity of such a derogatory term for another human being.
Let’s look at what Jesus says about name-calling. To say “Raca”, a word similar to our f-word in its courseness to Jesus’ culture, if not more so, Jesus claimes you are in danger of worldly authority, the Jewish council. But call someone a “fool”, Jesus clearly states you are in danger of hell fire.
(Some would say Jesus was participating in hate speech right there!)
We have millions of Christians in America that shudder if someone uses certain curse words but they don’t think twice about calling someone “stupid” or worse, especially political and religious figures … or when you’re driving.
To call someone a derogatory name does at least three important things:
1. Denies their individual humanity, their creation in the image of God. That image might be marred by sin, but a human being is still one of God’s creations, loved enough that God himself would sacrifice his own son.
2. Exposes religious pride. Check what Jesus said about the Pharisees and religious leaders of his day. He hated their pride more than the harlot’s sin. Remember also the man who prayed, “thank God I’m not like that sinner!” only to find that he was not justified before God and the sinner was.
3. Denies God’s ability to redeem fallen man. Love “believes all things” because we understand that no matter how bad the sin, or deceived the sinner, God’s arm is not too short and he is able to redeem.
I remember once when my high school basketball team went to this basketball camp before my sophomore year. One of my “friends” was just putting this other kid down, calling him names and making fun of him.
I had just recently committed my life more fully to Christ. What came out of my mouth in no way came from me, a tall skinny 15 year old.
An overwhelming sense of pity for my “friend” came over me. I said, “You must really feel bad about yourself if you need to put someone else down just to feel good or cool.”
The whole room got awkward and quiet, and then they tried to point their ire my way; but it was half-hearted at that point. The Spirit, through me, exposed his heart and motivation. The rest of the guys mostly mumbled and went away.
I should be secure enough in my own righteousness before God that I don’t need to point fingers at another’s sin to feel righteous … or put another person down. It just proves that I don’t know God. I don’t have to prove someone else wrong to be right.
When I am called upon to expose sin in another, it is then to offer them life, not label or marginalize, for God is not far from anyone.
We will always be able to point to those who are BAD examples, just as Christ did. But let us not be discouraged in our call to preach “repentance and acts consistent with repentance”, for Jesus preached that Gospel out of love.
Peace.